About my approach
Finding the right counsellor can be difficult, especially when it is not for yourself but for your child. This is why I feel it is so important that counselling is adapted to fit the individual and can be made accessible to all who need the support. Children can often struggle to verbalise what they are struggling with emotionally or what they are finding difficult. Often, children have yet to develop the language to express how they feel and, like adults, they can find talking about the issue directly too challenging. My approach to counselling is integrative which means I will draw on different skills and approaches based on the client. For example, I will use a Person-centred approach to develop a strong rapport between myself and the client. Sometimes I will incorporate creative and play-based methods, as in my experience as a counsellor I find this the most effective way of supporting children in talking about emotions and processing events. Through creative and play-based methods, children can then learn to identify emotions, process the past, and develop effective ways to manage and express themselves.
I am aware that it is a daunting prospect for both parents and children to enter counselling. It can be difficult for children to speak about their feelings and thoughts to someone new which is why I will always take the sessions at their pace. I believe building a trusting and honest relationship is a crucial aspect of counselling and giving children a safe, confidential space to feel able to fully express themselves.
I feel very passionately about children having their voices heard and having access to support so they can then develop the right tools to express themselves and build resilience to go forward. I have a calm, encouraging approach with children and incorporate sensory, creative and play activities into sessions.
Where I work
I work primarily in the Bognor Regis/Chichester area. I am happy to work within the child’s school or from a therapy room in Chichester. I am also happy to work within the child’s home if it is too difficult to deliver sessions at school or to travel to Chichester. These options can be discussed in-depth during the initial assessment to see what suits best.
How I work
I work by having an initial free 30-minute phone/zoom call with the parent to determine what the need for counselling is and to answer any questions about my practice. If the wish is to progress with the counselling, a face-to-face assessment is then booked with the Parent/Carer and child in attendance. Following the assessment, sessions can then be booked and therapy can begin.
I am a registered BACP member and a qualified children’s counsellor. I work to the ethical framework and practice as outlined by my registered professional body. I am also in the process of working towards my BACP accreditation.
I qualified as a children’s counsellor in 2019 after completing my Diploma in Child Counselling from the Institute of Arts in Therapy and Education. It was through this, that I learnt how various creative mediums can be used within counselling sessions with children aged 5 onwards.
As well as my private practice, I also work for a Hampshire based charity that provides counselling to primary aged children. Before this, I was working for another charity on the Isle of Wight which provided counselling to children and young people across the island.
Prior to qualifying as a counsellor, I worked for the NHS supporting children with complex medical needs within their homes, school and public.
Training & experience
Qualifications
Diploma in Child Counselling
BA (Hons) Childhood and Youth Studies
Certificate in Self-Harm and Suicide Awareness and Prevention
Certificate in Understanding Autism
Certificate in Understanding Adverse Childhood Experiences
Certificate in Counselling Skills
Certificate in Counselling Studies